Guest Post: What I Think About Relaxers and Weave by Nerissa Irving

 

Don’t misquote me !!

My honesty upsets people but I don’t care. I will preach my knowledge becomes its my purpose and if you don’t like it you don’t have to listen.

But before you misquote me and assume things let me break it down for you.

- I don’t think relaxing your hair is healthy – I hate horrible cheap lace front wigs – I don’t see the purpose of relaxing your hair and wearing weave at the same time when I know people wear weave without relaxing their hair. – I love creativity of weave and the versatility it gives you – I hate that some people wear weave because they think they are ugly and society says “your natural is not professional or good” -I hate seeing woman stress about having enough money to buy weave When they have free hair growing from their heads – I hate seeing woman neglecting their responsibilities because they spent their money on weave -I hate that people still say “good hair”.  I want healthy hair and a healthy scalp not “good hair” -I don’t see why people get upset about weave that looks like natural hair when they wear weave that’s not even the texture of their hair. How dear you call fake natural (kinky African looking weave) ugly. Sounds crazy but people actually say this madness. So cornsilk weave is better than kinky weave? This is why I preach what I preach. We even discriminating against weave texture. Self hate is serious out here. -I hate when some women relax their 4 yr old daughters hair. Can you please give her hair a chance to grow please!!

You are not your hair but my purpose is to let you know there are alternatives to chemicals. If you want to relax your hair go right on ahead because its your choice but I’m going to still let you know the potential damage you are doing to your scalp.

And if your hair falls out because you relaxed the crap out of it I will buy you the best Wendy Williams wig and we can still go to the club and look fabulous lol.

I don’t dislike people because of their hair I dislike people because of the ignorant foolishness that comes out of their mouth.

I receive 100s of emails about hair loss from relaxers so I know relaxers don’t work for everyone.

Now for you overly sensitive, ignorant, can’t laugh at the truth people … This is what I think about weave and relaxers. Now you don’t have to misquote me anymore.

I hate being misquoted because I’m not the one that is going to walk on eggshells around you  because my opinion might offend you.

And you shouldn’t get your self all worked up because I don’t agree with you. “Calm your mind”

You are going to do what you want to do anyway!

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